Trauma Bonding

We’re going to tackle a hard topic for our 100th episode today: trauma bonding. Many women don’t realize they’re either in trauma bonds themselves or they know someone who is. It’s a lot more prevalent than most of us expect. Let’s get some clarity around the term ‘trauma bonding’ and what it means, so we can better understand our relationships and experiences. What is a trauma bond? To quote Jourdan Travers, LCSW, “Trauma bonds are the attachments we have with our abusers. It's when we have fond feelings or miss individuals who have abused us because we've developed a connection to them. One minute things are good, and then the next, they're not.” It's possible to become trauma bonded to a parent or any other person in your life. But our focus is on trauma bonding in romantic relationships. There are so many nuances and complications around this topic. But we want this episode to serve as a starting point for you to get curious about your own experiences, and decide if and how you want to create different experiences moving forward. You’ll Learn: Why trauma bonds happen, why they’re hard to break, and how to start noticing them Tools to help you gain clarity around trauma bonding experiences in your life Techniques for breaking unhealthy patterns and beginning your healing from a trauma bond