Trauma, Loss & The Enneagram: Crissy Loughridge, Type 6--Finding Safety, living in community with the loyalist

Send us Fan MailThis week on the Wednesdays With Watson Podcast, Crissy Loughridge joins Amy in the interviewee spot as she represents our enneagram type six. We are are on a mission to help people understand themselves better so that with a gospel centered approach, we can live in the fullness of the life give to us.  We all have experienced loss and trauma and as of the publication of this podcast still living through a pandemic. Crissy helps us understand fear and compromised safety, listen to this conversation for you or someone you know who has an intense fear of the loss of safety.Contact AmyContact Enneagram Coach Karissa HarrisonEnneagram Six Core Fear:(5:20)"The Enneagram type six is operating out of the fear of fear itself. They are also very concerned about being left without support"--Karissa Harrison, Enneagram coach.Enneagram type six finds their happy place in safety and opinions of others. They tend to make decisions by committee, whether that be their busy heads (and their own committee) or an actual group of people that provide support.(6:28)What happens when we lose a person that is our stability and safety, as an enneagram six?(8:07) Not trusting yourself is a hallmark of the enneagram six(9:44) How do we trust God when trauma and loss occur and you identify as an enneagram six?(10:42) Highlighting the Star of the story, whose completed work on the cross is the place for us all to land in trauma and loss.(11:53)--John 16--"In this world you will have trouble, but take heart for I have overcome the world"(12:38) How does satan tricks you up to get you to question God?(13:54) James "A double-minded man is unstable in all of his ways" (James 1:8)(16:24) Finding all the loopholes in the all the plans, as they chase safety, they will first look for the things that are wrong with your plan. They are coaches and want us to succeed, not fail.(18;44) Type sixes are very loyal and extremely protective and loyal.(19:17) Unhealthy characteristics of enneagram type six.(22:45) How has community helps type six?(24:00) Why is counseling important for the enneagram six?(25:47) How has type six worked during the pandemic?(27:22) Do you think you don't struggle in crisis because of how God made you?"Footprints"--"It was then that I carried you"(32:17) How can we love and help enneagram sixes? How can we do life better with you?You are:Seen, Known, Heard, Loved, ValuedIsaiah 43Psalm 91You ARE:SEEN KNOWN HEARD LOVED VALUED