Why the Early Days Mean Nothing

Sometimes life is hard, sometimes bad things happen to good people - but the answer is never to hide away.This episode of Secrets They’ll Only Tell A Matchmaker is about dusting yourself off and going again. Whether that’s in the dating world or in life more generally.Matchmaker Gina Hendrix shares two very personal stories from her early years in LA, that almost derailed her, but instead helped shape the woman she would become.And the link to dating is clear, yes you might have one bad experience on the apps, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try again - a little wiser, but still the woman you are in your heart.In an lively Q&A, we hear from a woman who can't verify her date’s backstory, another who’s worried about a potential partner’s political views, and we talk about stepping back and letting a man lead rather than doing the work yourself. The takeaway from this episode of Secrets They’ll Only Tell A Matchmaker: don't let fear be the reason you miss out on the love you deserve. Ask smarter questions, trust your gut, lean on your community, and keep showing up, because the moment you let fear keep you inside, that's the moment it wins.New episodes every Thursday. Subscribe so you never miss the truth about men and dating. And if this one hits home share it with a girlfriend who needs to hear it.Follow me on Instagram @MatchmakerGinaHendrix or visit my matchmaking website GinaHendrix.comCHAPTERS:(00:00) Introduction(02:41) Fear vs Living Fully(06:28) Dating App Safety Q&A(15:24) Politics and Dating(16:12) Long Distance, Low Effort Man(21:36) Qualifying Dating Questions Strategy(26:29) Bragging and Energy Match(28:45) Don't Overthink Early Dating