Trusting God With What We Cannot Control: Our Kids Choices

Welcome to the Called to Love Podcast! In this episode, I discuss what to do and how to respond to the choices our adopted or foster children make. This topic is one of the first inspirations for this podcast as many families have asked me what to do when a situation arises where your child is making problematic, concerning, even destructive and harmful choices. It is important to always remember that God is in control and we cannot control our children. Even in the most loving Christian homes, children will be led astray and make bad choices. The question in this episode is how do we respond to it in a loving and protective way. I encourage you to acknowledge your weakness, embrace your role as the parent, and understand that your child’s choices do not define you as a parent, nor do they define your child. Here’s a few key takeaways you’ll find in this episode: -Trusting God is essential when facing challenges in parenting. -Parents should not lose confidence in their role due to children's choices. -Love should be confident and not fearful. -It's okay to acknowledge weaknesses and seek support from God. -Perfection in parenting is unrealistic; mistakes will happen. -Children's identities are not defined by their parents' successes or failures. You can email me your questions about adoption and foster care at [email protected]. I'd love to connect with you on Instagram or send you my monthly newsletter with free resources and first access to episodes and more!