EPISODE · May 21, 2026 · 18 MIN
Trying to be perfect to be loved
from The Love Movement · host Lama Aboubakr
Perfectionism in the search for marriage doesn’t always look obvious — sometimes it looks like “working on yourself” while secretly believing you have to earn love first.In this episode, Lama talks about the painful cycle of trying to become perfect to feel worthy of love, the difference between growth and shame, and why Allah never asked you to be flawless to deserve love.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the spouse you're looking for.Watch this episode on YouTube →https://youtu.be/ZRSzuX1N5DM?si=rU6M4Q9www_lrlOw
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Perfectionism in the search for marriage doesn’t always look obvious — sometimes it looks like “working on yourself” while secretly believing you have to earn love first.In this episode, Lama talks about the painful cycle of trying to become perfect to feel worthy of love, the difference between growth and shame, and why Allah never asked you to be flawless to deserve love.Ready to go deeper? Visit https://www.lamaaboubakr.com/ for 1-on-1 coaching and everything you need to find the spouse you're looking for.Watch this episode on YouTube →https://youtu.be/ZRSzuX1N5DM?si=rU6M4Q9www_lrlOw
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