UGH, I want to leave this person; Chapter 24 from the audiobook, "Every Marriage Is...Flawed"

“Ugh, I want to leave this person!”. “Who is this person?”,  “Did he just say that?”, “I just can’t even talk with you right now.”.  If you have never said a version of this, then you haven’t been married long enough.  Wait, “What?” some of you ask.  Ok, maybe it’s more like “Who is this person?” or you are angry, you yelled at them or on the other side maybe it’s the silent treatment or cold shoulder.  Now, it’s starting to come into focus for most of you.  You may be feeling this for years or may have been an hour so far.