‘Umm, Why Don’t I Want To Have Sex Anymore?’  Life happens, which means dry spells happen, am I right? No biggie—unless that dry spell morphs into more of a, well, severe drought

‘Umm, Why Don’t I Want To Have Sex Anymore?’ Life happens, which means dry spells happen, am I right? No biggie—unless that dry spell morphs into more of a, well, severe drought. Wondering why don't I want to have sex anymore? Well, “It’s normal for there to be an ebb and flow in sexual desire in a marriage,” says Ramani Durvasula, PhD, a licensed clinical psychologist, and author of Should I Stay or Should I Go?.