Unbecoming: Ashley Jordan on Grief, Love, and Finding Your True Self

In this episode of Teaching Journeys, host Dave Roberts speaks with author and journalist Ashley Jordan about her transformative journey through grief and self-discovery.The Story:Ashley lost her childhood sweetheart Daniel at age 13—literally on her 13th birthday. Growing up in the Midwest with a culture of "nice on the outside," she buried her grief for 24 years. At 37, while living what appeared to be a perfect life, a spontaneous visit to a psychic medium triggered a tsunami of repressed grief that changed everything.Key Themes:Grief & Loss: How traumatic loss at 13 shaped her entire life trajectoryThe Triggering Event: A medium's connection with Daniel reopened 24 years of buried painUnbecoming vs. Becoming: Deconstructing a life built on external achievements to rebuild one rooted in authentic loveShadow Work: Embracing darkness to find light and true alivenessUnconditional Love: Daniel's legacy taught her that love exists by virtue of being, not doingThe Transformation:Ashley walked away from her "picture perfect" life—the degrees, accolades, marriage, and material success—to follow her heart. Today she lives a life built on love rather than achievement, sharing her story through her book "Unhappy Achiever" and her journalism.Core Message: You are worthy of love simply by existing. Grief never goes away—it just gets different. And sometimes you have to unbecome everything you thought you should be to remember who you truly are.Ashley’s Bio and Contact InformationAshley Jordan has done many things throughout her life. She’sbeen a feminist activist, licensed attorney, public speaker, anda stay-at-home mother. Most notably, however, she’s a well-published journalist with her works appearing in The New YorkTimes, The Washington Post, The Guardian, and HuffPost, amongothers. Today, she lives in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, with herthree children.Connect with Ashley:• Website: ashjordan.com• Book: unhappyachiever.com• Instagram: @msashjordanTo find out more about Dave go to davidrobertsmsw.com