Understanding the Misinterpretations and Unintentional Hurt, Pain and Trauma Both Partners Can Cause

During this episode, Mona and Manecia talk openly and honestly about some of the unintentional hurt and pain that they have both caused in their relationships, as well as what their partners may have done in past or present relationships.  When you don't know you are in neurodiverse relationship, or you know, but don't have the skills and tools needed to navigate the challenges and differences between the two different neurotypes, lots of arguments, disagreements, meltdowns and shutdowns can lead to unintentional hurt, pain and trauma.  None of these create harmony and peace in any relationship, however in a neurodiverse relationship, having the same fight over and over again, without learning any new skills to navigate this path, can create so much unintentional trauma for both partners.  Finding resources and/or a counselor, or coach ,who has expertise in translating both partners  experiences through a neurodiverse lens, can help change "barely surviving" to "thriving".  However it is also important to remember that the journey to "thriving", is often filled with lots of patience, compassion and a desire to understand yourself and your partner! If you are interested in learning more about "Neurodiverse Love" relationships, check out our website at: neurodiverselove.com If you would like to join one of our free "Neurodiverse Love" peer support groups, please send us an e-mail at: [email protected] You can also follow us on Instagram @neurodiverse_love If you would like to be a guest on the "Neurodiverse Love" podcast, please send us an email or a DM on Instagram. Please subscribe to the podcast or follow us, so that you don't miss any of the upcoming episodes. Thanks for being a part of the "Neurodiverse Love" journey.