Unwanted Pregnancies: Who Bares The Blame?

It is often stated that it takes two to make a baby, however in reality the BLAME & RESPONSIBILITY for an UNWANTED PREGNANCY is typically not distributed equally between the man and the woman. Some men say women bear the brunt of the responsibility since they not only choose the men they PROCREATE with, but in many cases, it is their sole choice whether to have the child despite the shortcomings they know the man may have. Many women feel this attitude fuels the environment for some men to take no accountability for their part in the pregnancy.  What if the woman had the child in hopes of keeping the man in the relationship?  If the man wants to ABORT THE CHILD, but the women goes through with the pregnancy, should she expect support from the FATHER?  If the man feels he bore a child with an unfit MOTHER, what steps should he take?  Can #healthymarriageb4children alleviate this issue? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK