Us Against the Problem - Tackling Your Sex Life Together After Kids

Send us Fan MailThis episode of the Sex After Kids podcast delves into common challenges couples face in their sex lives after having children, focusing on the detrimental effects of the blame game and the significance of teamwork in overcoming creating a new sex life together. Sex is a team sport - let's talk about how to support each other to get to pleasure town. 00:32 The Biggest Mistake in Post-Kids Sex Life00:50 Blaming Yourself or Your Partner03:41 Common Thoughts and Misconceptions05:07 Quit the Magical Thinking05:40 Taking Action and Working Together06:51 Building Connection Through Challenges07:26 The Growing Disconnection in Relationships08:05 The Blame Game: Self vs. Partner08:57 Problematizing Libidos and Gender Scripts10:31 Engaging Partners in the Solution11:46 The Power of Working Together13:27 Creating Magic Together14:00 Final Thoughts and Call to Action_________________Add more play to your couple connection and get back into the bedroom for more frequent and more satisfying naked sexy fun time after kids. Host Sofia Ashley, founder of the Happy Vagina Project, Certified Sex Coach and Sex Educator, brings you one part science of sex, one part magic, and one part real talk to tackle everything from miss matched libidos and lacklustre sex after kids.Whether you adopted, joined a blended family, or made a kid in your body we'll explore the ups and downs and the detours of trying to keep your sex life alive in the chaos of parenting. Sofia is a mom of two and step mom of one living a neurospicy household in Yukon, Canada on the Traditional territories of the Kwanlin Dün First Nation and the Ta'an Kwäch'än Council where she is grateful to live and play with her hubby and kiddos.Get your butt over to www.thehappyvaginaproject.com or @thehappyvproject on IG to join the conversation and find the spark in yourself and your relationship after kids.