Valentine’s Day DTR: Are They Pursuing You or Love Bombing You? (ft. Ryan Lu) | Dating Advice, Situationships & New Music

In this Valentine’s Day special of Love, Sex, LA: Unfiltered, we’re asking the question everyone in modern dating is low-key afraid to say out loud: Are they actually pursuing you… or just love bombing you? Alexandria is joined by her longtime friend Ryan Lu for a real, unfiltered conversation about: The difference between genuine pursuit vs. love bombing Why situationships feel intense but go absolutely nowhere The signs someone wants a relationship… vs. just the attention How Valentine’s Day exposes the truth about your “almost relationship” What it really looks like when someone is intentional about you We also get into Ryan’s new music, the emotional side of creativity, and how friendship, timing, and growth shape both love and art. It’s dating advice, relationship psychology, and personal stories all in one episode — with the chaotic honesty you expect from Love, Sex, LA. If you’ve ever wondered: “Does he like me… or does he just like how I make him feel?” This episode is your Valentine’s Day reality check. Perfect for anyone navigating: modern dating, situationships, talking stages, commitment issues, love bombing, relationship red flags, and emotional availability. 💔✨ Press play before you text them back.