Valentine’s Day, Rewritten: Pleasure, Passion & Play After 60

Just in time for VALENTINE'S DAY, Constance and Lori speak to Kandee Love, a licensed therapist specializing in couple’s and sex therapy. We explore topics ranging from sexual expression across the life stages to sex toys and tips for older adults. Kandee emphasizes the importance of prioritizing pleasure, passion, and play in a world filled with stress. Kandee has labeled February as “Spunky Old Broads Month,” and encourages women to re-write their old narratives and embrace boldness in the bed room. We discuss the idea of redefining sexuality beyond traditional penetrative sex, and the great importance of communication in a relationship, and we end with Kandee providing tips for enhancing sexual expression and intimacy in long-term relationships. This is an episode you don’t want to miss! And don’t forget to hang around for our “After Thoughts” where we unpack the episode and chat about our thoughts on what we heard, and where we have started “Listener Shout-Outs,” and episode-based Challenges for our listeners.   SHOW NOTESIf you are interested in learning more about Kandee’s work, check out her website: https://www.kiscounseling.net. Kandee’s Yes, No, Maybe List to try 😊 (WADY CHALLENGE – try using this and let us know!)Spunky, Old Broad Month LUBES TO LOVE: Water-based products (safe with all toys and condoms): Good Clean Love Almost Naked, Sliquid, Aloe Cadabra, Astroglide, Uberlube SILICON BASED (don’t use with silicone toys): Astroglide X, Wet Platinum, 10 Millennium, UberlubeNATURAL (not condom safe): Organic coconut oilTOYS TO TRY: EASY TO GRIP: Palm power, Iroha  Series (Yuki, Koharu), VM Wand vibratorCLITORAL STIMULATORS: SILA Cruise, SONA Cruise, Namii Clitoral Suction Stimulator, Wominizer Premium Duo, Evii External Vibrator with Dual Motors Pulse Wand  G SPOT VIBRATORS: Kurve, GII G spot Vibrator, Je Joye Juno Flex DATING WEBSITES FOR SENIORS: Seniorsizzle.com, DateMyAge, BeNaughty, OurTime, Tinder for seniors, Seniormatch, Kinky-seniors.com, SeniorfuckbuddiesWe would love to hear from you! Do you have ideas for future podcasts? Want to be a guest on our podcast? Have you tried one of our challenges and want a Shout Out? Please send your comments/suggestions/criticisms/encouragement to: Email: [email protected] & Review on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-aint-dead-yet/id1828702362Follow the show on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578375460053 Visit our website: https://wady.buzzsprout.comListen Here! (Our linktree will direct you to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, GoodPods, and Pocket Casts)You can text Fan Mail to the link below, but heads-up, we are unable to respond to these Fan Mail Texts. If you'd like a reply, please reach out on our FB/Substack/or email/or include your email address in your Fan Mail Text. Send us Fan MailBeautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt