Vayigash: Moving to Your Grandchildren: Gift or Quiet Enslavement?

Moving closer to your grandchildren is often framed as the ultimate act of love. But what happens when that gift slowly becomes a loss of freedom, identity, or voice? In this episode on Parashat Vayigash, we examine Yaakov’s descent to Egypt as both a reunion and the beginning of bondage. What starts as safety, abundance, and family closeness quietly turns into dependency and constraint. It is a story many grandparents recognize today. This conversation explores the unspoken emotional costs of relocating for family, the joy of being needed, the danger of over-sacrifice, and how love can turn into obligation when boundaries are not named. Whether you are considering a move, have already relocated, or feel torn between gratitude and resentment, this episode offers Torah-rooted insight and practical wisdom for staying connected without losing yourself. Honest. Uncomfortable. Essential listening for grandparents navigating proximity, purpose, and choice. Book a Free Legacy Planning Call with Sharona → https://calendly.com/grandplan Ready for Coaching? → https://grandplan.kit.com/legacy Learn more about Grand Plan → bit.ly/GrandPland