Vince 'Matoska' Chafin - Healing Trauma By Doing The Work

from going out | looking in · host Maximilian Bartel

"It's not what happens to us, it's what we make it mean."   Today, I'm sharing a very powerful, moving, deep, and vulnerable episode with you. I spoke with Vince "Matoska" Chafin, a men's work facilitator for over 25 years whose work has taken him all over the world, where he continues to hold sacred spaces for men and women. I discovered Vince through a podcast episode he did with Sacred Sons - shoutout to those beautiful brothers! From the moment I heard him speak, I was moved by his life-spawning wisdom, gentle spirit, and gracious presence. We delved deeply, unpacked my personal shadow and father wound, shared laughs and experiences about masculinity, responsibility, trauma work, and much more. I am very proud of this conversation, and I already look forward to catching up with Vince in person soon when he travels to Germany with the brothers and sisters of MKP.    👉 We explored a broad variety of topics such as:  The practice, power and importance of gratitude   The different narratives of life   Responsibility and Freedom  Maintenance of friendships   Intention and impact   Ancestral trauma   Family constellation work   Father wound and shadow work   🎧 PODCAST:  ▶️ Website   ▶️ Spotify  ▶️ Apple Podcasts   ▶️ Google Podcasts  ▶️ Amazon Podcasts    🔗 MY GUEST:  ▶️ Instagram  ▶️ Podcast Interview with Sacred Sons   🙋‍♂️ MY STUFF:  ▶️ Website  ▶️ My creative agency ▶️ Instagram  ▶️ LinkedIn  ▶️ Michael Singer Weekly Talks  ▶️ Micheal Singer Podcast   ▶️ Waking Up App (free month)  ▶️ My book recommendations   📩 CONTACT:  [email protected]

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"It's not what happens to us, it's what we make it mean." Today, I'm sharing a very powerful, moving, deep, and vulnerable episode with you. I spoke with Vince "Matoska" Chafin, a men's work facilitator for over 25 years whose work has taken him all over the world, where he continues to hold sacred spaces for men and women. I discovered Vince through a podcast episode he did with Sacred Sons - shoutout to those beautiful brothers! From the moment I heard him speak, I was moved by his life-spawning wisdom, gentle spirit, and gracious presence. We delved deeply, unpacked my personal shadow and father wound, shared laughs and experiences about masculinity, responsibility, trauma work, and much more. I am very proud of this conversation, and I already look forward to catching up with Vince in person soon when he travels to Germany with the brothers and sisters of MKP. 👉 We explored a broad variety of topics such as: The practice, power and importance of gratitude The different narratives of life Responsibility and Freedom Maintenance of friendships Intention and impact Ancestral trauma Family constellation work Father wound and shadow work 🎧 PODCAST: ▶️ Website ▶️ Spotify ▶️ Apple Podcasts ▶️ Google Podcasts ▶️ Amazon Podcasts 🔗 MY GUEST: ▶️ Instagram ▶️ Podcast Interview with Sacred Sons 🙋‍♂️ MY STUFF: ▶️ Website ▶️ My creative agency ▶️ Instagram ▶️ LinkedIn ▶️ Michael Singer Weekly Talks ▶️ Micheal Singer Podcast ▶️ Waking Up App (free month) ▶️ My book recommendations 📩 CONTACT: [email protected]

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