Vlog66：The Power of Belief: Why It Shapes Your Relationships

� Vol. 66 | The Power of Belief: Why It Shapes Your Relationships, Career, and Quality of Life️ Q&AHave you ever experienced this:Because you believed, something became unexpectedly smooth?Or because of doubt, a relationship became complicated and draining?The Essence of BeliefBelief is a mindset. On a deeper level, it is your inner strength, intention, and conviction.It is the signal tower behind all behavior, ability, and skills.Business Case: How Trust Makes Cooperation EasierRebuilding a partnership with a colleague after working together for 7–8 years.When he left: there was no suspicion, only trust.Inviting him to join a project in the Netherlands was based on believing in his sincerity.He also accepted without hesitation because of trust.� Result: The project moved smoothly from 0 to 1.One year later, working together again almost had zero startup cost.Key Insight: Belief Simplifies EverythingTrust = reduces complexityDoubt = increases internal friction� Much of what we call suspicion is actually insecurity and projections from past experiences — not reality.Humanity’s Most Sensitive Ability: Sensing SignalsBelief vs. doubt is not only communicated through words.It is transmitted through:Eye contactTone of voicePresence / state of being� Other people can feel it.10 Years of Entrepreneurship: Trust Is the Foundation of RelationshipsThe core of deep relationships is not resources, but trust.Business networking is essentially a network of trust.One Key Question: Who Trusts First?“You respect me a little, I respect you a lot.”But the question is: Who starts first?� Becky’s principle: Before there are facts, do not actively doubt anyone.A Very Important Skill: Communication Without DrainageWhen you have doubts → communicate directly.Instead of: guessing + overthinking + inner exhaustion.� The meaning of this step is to train yourself into an energy state that does not drain you.Observation from the Dutch Business Environment: Why Is It Efficient?Core reasons:TransparencyDirectnessAuthenticity� At the root of it all: trust.Relationships Without Drainage = A High-Quality LifeBusiness relationships, family relationships, intimate relationships.� Relationships that do not drain you are one of the greatest sources of energy.Life Example: Using Belief to Improve Family RelationshipsWhen facing parents’ over-involvement or boundary-crossing concern:Traditional pattern:Endure → emotions build upFight back → conflict arisesA better way: honestly express your feelings (without emotional charge).� The core behind this is: I believe you will understand me.Important Discovery: The Lubricant of RelationshipsWhen expression comes from belief, the other person is more likely to receive the truth.� Result: less conflict, more understanding.Return to the Source: Believe in YourselfBelieving outwardly begins with believing inwardly.� Self-awareness: Every person is unique. There is no absolute good or bad, right or wrong.The Essence of Discipline: Believing Results Will ComeWhy can’t many people stay consistent?� It is not really a discipline problem.� It is a lack of belief in the outcome.Example: If success and earning one million in 3 months were guaranteed, most people would persist.� Conclusion: Belief determines action.Recommended Book� The SecretA classic book about belief and energy.ClosingBelieve in yourself.Believe in relationships.Believe in the power of belief.� Your life can change because of it.See you next episode!