Vlog68：Not Resisting Is a Higher Form of Energy Management

� Vol. 68 | Not Resisting Is a Higher Form of Energy Management� Core Takeaways of This EpisodeNot resisting = no unnecessary energy drain.In business: don’t become defensive or confrontational — return to the problem itself.In relationships: let go of obsession and the need to prove yourself; accept who you used to be.Looking back at recent changes and growth:When I look back at my past self now, I no longer feel regret. Instead, I see evidence of growth.Core TopicWhat does it mean to “struggle against” something?A lot of our energy drain does not come from the outside world, but from fighting with ourselves.� Part 1: Business Scenario | When You Stop Resisting, Complex Problems Become SimplerCase: Meeting with a Business PartnerA conversation again after two years of no cooperation.There were leftover inventory issues and potential trust concerns.Key Insights️ What people truly feel from you is your state of being — more than your words.️ Defensiveness creates confrontation.️ Relaxation creates a sense of safety.What Was Actually DoneTook the initiative to apologize (reducing the other side’s defensiveness)Chose transparency (reducing uncertainty)Honestly expressed the difficulties (building authenticity)Important Turning PointThe other person shifted from suspicion → to empathy.They even proposed a better solution themselves(replacing the batteries instead of returning the products).Core Conclusion� What truly solves problems is not “winning,” but removing emotions from the process.� The Underlying Logic of BusinessThe essence of business is:→ maximizing mutual benefit (Win-Win)→ not emotional confrontation.Most conflicts are not really about the issue itself, but about:PrideFeeling taken advantage ofFeeling hurt� Once you focus only on the issue itself, everything becomes much simpler.� Part 2: Life Scenario | What We’re Really Fighting Against Is OurselvesCase: A Friend’s Relationship EndingA 10-year relationship fell apart.It escalated into emotional confrontation and almost reached the point of legal action.Key Insight� What many people “cannot let go of” is often not the other person, but:Unwillingness to accept the outcomeFeelings of grievanceInability to accept their past self� A Question for YouWhat was the last situation where you found yourself resisting or struggling emotionally?If you had stopped resisting, what might that situation have become?