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EPISODE · Jan 14, 2026 · 1H 27M

VPP EP8 - Why Being a Nice Guy is Ruining Your Life: The Truth About What Women Want

from Vital Path Podcast · host Andrew Newton

FREE RESOURCE:Feeling dysregulated? Take this FREE 5-minute Nervous System Quiz for your personalized reset practice >>> https://www.andrewnewton.co/nervous-system-quiz—In this episode of the Vital Path Podcast, Andrew Newton is joined by Lucas Salame for a raw and transformative conversation that exposes the "Nice Guy" archetype and the hidden costs of emotional suppression in men.  Together, they dive deep into how childhood conditioning and the pressure to be a "good boy" can lead to a disconnected life and unfulfilled relationships, masked by anxiety and a loss of personal power. This conversation unpacks:the journey of reclaiming your true self by facing the parts of your humanity, like anger and grief, that society often asks us to hidewhy true integrity requires more than just being "good"how to navigate the fear of being truly seenwhy the path to freedom begins with the courage to stop performing for others. Key Topics:The "Good Boy" ConditioningSuppressed MasculinityBreaking People-Pleasing PatternsLeading in RelationshipMental Strength  Guest: Lucas SalameInstagram: @lucas__salameLucas Salame is a healer and coach dedicated to helping you uncover the shadows that shape your choices. Through his own journey of unlearning childhood conditioning, Lucas supports others step into love, success, and freedom by clearing the old wounds holding you back.Book a Private 1:1 Healing Session with Lucas >>> https://www.lucassalame.com/session If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. Prefer other platforms?Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qy3Czpgfg4c Subscribe for more transformational conversations on emotional healing, holistic health, and spiritual growth.

FREE RESOURCE:Feeling dysregulated? Take this FREE 5-minute Nervous System Quiz for your personalized reset practice >>> https://www.andrewnewton.co/nervous-system-quiz—In this episode of the Vital Path Podcast, Andrew Newton is joined by Lucas Salame for a raw and transformative conversation that exposes the "Nice Guy" archetype and the hidden costs of emotional suppression in men.  Together, they dive deep into how childhood conditioning and the pressure to be a "good boy" can lead to a disconnected life and unfulfilled relationships, masked by anxiety and a loss of personal power. This conversation unpacks:the journey of reclaiming your true self by facing the parts of your humanity, like anger and grief, that society often asks us to hidewhy true integrity requires more than just being "good"how to navigate the fear of being truly seenwhy the path to freedom begins with the courage to stop performing for others. Key Topics:The "Good Boy" ConditioningSuppressed MasculinityBreaking People-Pleasing PatternsLeading in RelationshipMental Strength  Guest: Lucas SalameInstagram: @lucas__salameLucas Salame is a healer and coach dedicated to helping you uncover the shadows that shape your choices. Through his own journey of unlearning childhood conditioning, Lucas supports others step into love, success, and freedom by clearing the old wounds holding you back.Book a Private 1:1 Healing Session with Lucas >>> https://www.lucassalame.com/session If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. Prefer other platforms?Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qy3Czpgfg4c Subscribe for more transformational conversations on emotional healing, holistic health, and spiritual growth.

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