was it worth it? is being a sugar daddy worth losing your house?

my decision to be a sugar daddy was rooted in not addressing my own problems and relationship problems with my wife.  so, i used her.  then, fell in love.  then she used me.  and then it happened again.  what happens to us when we do not address our own problems and start using others instead.  the real cost of using others.  the real cost of karma.  we let others take advantage of us when we don't address our own problems, so while we are to blame, it still doesn't excuse them.  but there is a real cost of using others that the user doesn't see.  the cost of using others.  how about it, ladies?  was it worth it?  learn how being a sugar daddy cost me everything.  #nobadkarma #givechoicespurpose