EPISODE · Apr 9, 2026 · 13 MIN
Watch out for this common conflict mistake
from Permission To Desire: Relationships, Sex, Love, and Liberation · host Brian G. Murphy
If you try hard to communicate well in your relationship,and you care deeply about your partner,and so you try really hard to fix any problems in your relationship right when they come up...... that's understandable. It's even a loving and helpful impulse.BUT you might be skipping one important step and making a mistake that actually makes your conflict harder than it needs to be.In this episode, you'll learn:a big conflict mistake Brian sees in his coaching clients (and has dealt with himself, too)how Brian approached conflict in the past—and why that didn't serve him wellhow to spot this conflict mistake in your own relationshiptools to approach conflict differently so you can handle conflict more productively (and with less frustration!)Enrollment for Relationshift is sold out and now closed. Want early access when enrollment opens again later this summer? Add your name to the waitlist at thisisbgm.com/groupIf you are reading this, I have 2 private coaching spots opening up later in June 2026. Learn more about how coaching can support you in building a fuller, more honest, more alive erotic life and relationship and apply for a spot at https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/Connect with Brian on Instagram: @ThisIsBGM (Feel free to DM with any questions you have!)
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If you try hard to communicate well in your relationship,and you care deeply about your partner,and so you try really hard to fix any problems in your relationship right when they come up...... that's understandable. It's even a loving and helpful impulse.BUT you might be skipping one important step and making a mistake that actually makes your conflict harder than it needs to be.In this episode, you'll learn:a big conflict mistake Brian sees in his coaching clients (and has dealt with himself, too)how Brian approached conflict in the past—and why that didn't serve him wellhow to spot this conflict mistake in your own relationshiptools to approach conflict differently so you can handle conflict more productively (and with less frustration!)Enrollment for Relationshift is sold out and now closed. Want early access when enrollment opens again later this summer? Add your name to the waitlist at thisisbgm.com/groupIf you are reading this, I have 2 private coaching spots opening up later in June 2026. Learn more about how coaching can support you in building a fuller, more honest, more alive erotic life and relationship and apply for a spot at https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/Connect with Brian on Instagram: @ThisIsBGM (Feel free to DM with any questions you have!)
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