"We Barely Bang and I Caught Her Sexting Another Guy, But Our Relationship is Good!"

Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy that's been practically paralyzed by getting rejected from girls he's approached (featuring the advice I was given when I first started approaching girls).- A guy who is wondering what to do about his girlfriend of 5 years that he caught cheating through text. Oh, also they've barely banged in the past 2 years.- A guy dating an identical twin and wondering how to handle the fact that they fight like crazy.- A nerdy guy who is looking for a nerdy girl (his intentions are good but his mindset is totally wrong).- A guy who is, for some reason, hiding the fact that he got laid off from his girlfriend.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:If you freeze around women in real life, the answer is more practice. Being good at talking to girls online does not automatically translate to confidence face to face. You need to approach more women, get rejected more, and give yourself permission to fail until real-life conversations stop feeling so intimidating.Rejection hurts less when you stop treating every approach as pass or fail. The real win is making yourself walk up and talk to the girl, not whether she gives you her number. If you make the effort, you are already doing more than most men, and every rejection gives you more experience.Bad experiences with women do not mean you missed your chance at dating. Even if college did not go how you wanted, you are still young enough to build confidence and get results. Do not let a few failed approaches convince you that your dating life is already ruined.If your girlfriend says she loves another man online, the relationship is over. Emotional cheating, sexual messages, hidden chats, and sending another man details about your life are not harmless. If she is telling another guy she loves him and wants him sexually, there is nothing left to discuss.A dead bedroom is already enough reason to end a relationship. If you have barely had sex for two years, the relationship is not as good as you think it is. Regular sex is a basic part of having a girlfriend, and living together does not make up for the lack of it.Do not ignore incompatibility just because breaking up is inconvenient. Moving houses, signing a lease, or being together for years can make a breakup complicated, but that does not mean the relationship should continue. If she wants something you are not and the attraction is gone, staying only delays the inevitable.When dating an identical twin, do not get involved in sibling fights. Twins may be unusually close, competitive, and intense with each other, but their fights are not your job to solve. Let them argue, let them move on, and avoid taking sides in family dynamics.To meet nerdy girls, stop only looking in stereotypically nerdy places. Anime bars, gaming shops, conventions, and board-game meetups can be full of men or too competitive. A better strategy is to approach women anywhere, then find out whether they are open to your interests.A woman does not need to share your hobbies to enjoy dating you. If you like video games, mini golf, batting cages, or other activities, invite her to do those things with you. Many women will join you even if the hobby is not already part of their identity.Losing your job does not automatically mean the woman you are dating will leave. If you get laid off, do not panic or hide it for weeks. Tell her plainly, keep applying for jobs, and understand that if she leaves immediately because you lost work, she was not worth keeping.