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we can’t believe you broke up… ft. alexis barber (part 1 of 2)

from picky & selfish · host Sean Kilby

Talia and Sean are joined by their former co-host and collaborator Alexis Barber (Too Smart For This) to talk about single life, learning to be alone, and the most important things to you in a relationship. Alexis fills us in on how her life changed after ending a long-term relationship and going off to business school, including lessons she never expected to learn. In this ep we also discuss: Ranking Priorities: Personality, Sex, Looks, Intelligence, and Money (what do you care about most?) What’s the difference between “having money” and “ambition” anyway? Getting attention from new types of people (and Talia’s strategy for getting what she wants) How family dynamics play into your relationship Getting support for your career from a partner picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby. Follow Alexis: @alexisbarber Follow us on TikTok & IG: @pickyandselfish Follow Talia: @talialichtstein Follow Sean: @seanryankilby Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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