We Can't Fix Them

In this episode Gabi digs into the way we feel when we go thru relationships with others. Whether they are romantic relationships, as a parent, all of the ways. Encouraging those you love to grow, and heal is all we can do. We can't make them do this work. We often focus so much on what other do or don't do. We want to tell other people about themselves, we want to be loud, and you can't do that. It's a trauma response. Quotables "Needing to have the last word, or dig in, is a trauma response. And have our feelings acknowledged so we feel like we have to come a little wild to be seen." " A lot of people have been conditioned to think that as long they have made peace with whatever they have done. There isn't any apology that needs to be handed out." Connect with Gabi below.  https://www.instagram.com/gabi.garland/ https://www.facebook.com/gabrielle.anaya.5