We Don’t Have a Divorce Problem—We Have a Marriage Problem

Key Points, Top Takeaways and Memorable Quotes - “Obstacles plus attraction equal desire.” - Ann quoting Ester Perel @ 9:52“The other thing that’s equally as damaging that’s come out in the research is where there’s contemptuous coldness.” - Ann @ 11:14“We don’t have a divorce problem, we have a marriage problem.” - Ann @ 13:12“Marriage is the only place where we sign a contract for life.” - Ann @ 13:16“Never take your husband for granted on a daily basis.” 13:43“I would live for my kids.”  19:04“Don’t lose track of the big picture.” 30:02“There is no winning in divorce.” - Ann @ 36:49“Trust, loyalty, respect.” 41:12“I think fear holds us back from doing what we know is right for us.” 43:33“Perspective is everything.” 43:42“The light at the end of the tunnel is not an oncoming train.” - Ann @ 46:16Guest Bio - It wasn’t until Courtney experienced the divorce process herself, with her two children, that she became vigilant about easing future uncertainties for families going through divorce. Since then, Courtney has helped countless individuals make their divorces quick, easy, and efficient. Her ability to simplify the divorce process has proven invaluable to her clients and is one of the qualities that make her a Super Lawyer’s Rising Star.Though she was born and raised in New York City, Courtney attended Whittier Law School, in Costa Mesa, CA where she earned her Juris Doctorate and graduated cum laude. She was an active member of the Whittier Law Review and was published in their national journal. Courtney received her bachelor’s degree in Philosophy from Tulane University in New Orleans.After her admission to the California bar in 2013, Courtney served as the head of the Estate Planning Division for a family law firm. Courtney has experience in family law matters involving support issues, child custody, property division, modifications of judgments, and the preparation of premarital agreements.Show Notes -0:00 - Divorce Hacker Intro0:33 - Introducing Guest, Courtney Glickman0:56 - How Did You Become A Family Law Attorney?2:46 - Pros & Cons of Prenuptial Agreements4:17 - Marriage Statistics & the Concept of A Wed-Lease Agreement16:50 - Operating As A Single Mom & A Co-Parent20:52 - Living Alone Together Discussion24:02 - The Fake Marriage26:42 - Cohabitation Agreements28:10 - The Art of Co-Parenting 30:45 - Understanding Power Imbalance & Learning to See the Big Picture38:27 - Three Stages of Being Married40:47 - What Did You Learn About Relationships from Your Divorce?42:10 - Would You Get Married Again?42:56 - Advice for Women Contemplating or Going Through Divorce with Children46:01 - Thank You & Divorce Hacker ClosingFor more about Ann Grant and MB Family Law, please visit: https://www.mbfamilylawyers.com/Links & Where to Find Courtney - https://www.mbfamilylawyers.com/courtney-glickman