We Fell In Love Thanks To Sobriety w/ Nic And Ant (@nic_n_ant) | The Hopeaholics Podcast #353

We Fell In Love Thanks To Sobriety w/ Nic And Ant (@nic_n_ant) | The Hopeaholics Podcast #353Nicole and Anthony one of the most recognized and popular sober/recovery couples in social media. They met in a recovery meeting in 2018. She had six years and he was 60 days out of detox. His first year clean was a mess. Lies, cheating, not working a program. Both going through divorces simultaneously, his kids hating Nicole, his ex-wife's family leaving homewrecker comments in the comment section for years. They broke up and kept finding their way back. Nicole got clean at 21. Before that: 92 pounds, homeless, sheets over every mirror because she couldn't look at herself, months in the same blue dress without showering. Five arrests starting at 19 — selling drugs on felony probation, assault with a deadly weapon, possession. Stealing painkillers off a dying aunt on hospice and still not stopping. Anthony's path started with a work injury and a prescription. Heroin, then speed, then the needle. He took his son to baseball practice, dropped him off, and sat in the car getting high. He left his family mid-vacation in Montauk, drove four hours home to pawn the Rolex his wife had saved up to buy him, and went on a two-day run. When he came back, she told him: get help or you'll never see these kids again. Follow the Hopeaholics on our Socials:https://www.instagram.com/thehopeaholics https://linktr.ee/thehopeaholicsGo to www.Wolfpak.com today and support our sponsors. Don't forget to use code: HOPEAHOLICSPODCAST for 10% off!Visit our Treatment Centers: https://www.hopebythesea.comIf you or a loved one needs help, please call or text 949-615-8588. We have the resources to treat mental health and addiction. Sponsored by the Infiniti Group LLC:https://www.infinitigroupllc.com Join our patreon to get access to an EXTRA EPISODE every week of ‘Off the Record’, exclusive content, a thriving recovery community, and opportunities to be featured on the podcast. https://patreon.com/TheHopeaholics Our Merch: https://thehopeaholics.myshopify.com#TheHopeaholics #redemption #recovery #AlcoholAddiction #AddictionRecovery #wedorecover #SobrietyJourney #MyStory #Hope #wedorecover #treatmentcenter #natalieevamarie00:00 — Cold open01:38 — Introducing Nick and Ant06:15 — How they met12:47 — 11/11/22: the wedding date and the angel number14:25 — Co-parenting: from hatred to "we love each other today"15:57 — His kids found out through TikTok before he told anyone17:53 — Nicole steals Donna's number and reaches out three times25:26 — Meetings versus actually working the steps33:01 — Nicole's story: approaching 14 years, 22nd birthday in rehab37:48 — From the cheerleading squad to selling drugs in the projects at 3am41:47 — How she met her ex-husband: both smoking crack44:24 — Got everything she thought she wanted. Was miserable.50:08 — Anthony's story: 43rd birthday in rehab, now 5254:37 — Work injury to first prescription addiction57:44 — The slide to heroin58:59 — Going to work to steal59:46 — Dropping his son at baseball practice and getting high in the car1:00:25 — Left his family in Montauk, drove four hours home to pawn the Rolex1:02:19 — In detox, calling his wife: "I just want to get high one more time"1:04:43 — Wife hands him the phone. Bed opens Monday. His eyes lit up.1:06:11 — The day the obsession lifted1:20:11 — Why they went public about their recovery1:30:43 — The anonymity question1:35:15 — Recovery coaches bashing 12-step and charging money1:39:59 — What would you tell your past self?1:42:18 — Work a program or we're not getting married