We Have More in Common Than We Think EP 379

Travel has a funny way of reminding us what's really important. My flight to Texas recently was supposed to take about two and a half hours. Instead, it took six. Weather forced us to divert to another airport for fuel. Then more storms kept us sitting on the tarmac for another hour and a half. None of it was anyone's fault. I kept waiting for people to get frustrated. But they didn't. People chatted with each other. Parents smiled as their kids wandered the aisle to burn off energy. Flight attendants did their best. Everyone just adapted. The crew was amazing and I know that we all recognized their efforts to be calm, to keep us informed and they did the best they could to make sure we were comfortable.  The pilot was updating us every 20 minutes or so, which I know kept the frustration level lower. Not knowing is often why people get upset. The team did everything they could to explain what was happening (or not happening) and what was next in the process.  It was such a simple reminder that when circumstances are beyond our control, most people are incredibly gracious. The loudest stories we hear often convince us that people are impatient, angry, or divided. But that's rarely what I experience in everyday life. Most people are kind. Most people are doing their best. Most people simply want to get where they're going and help each other along the way. Today's dose of hope: We have far more in common than we're often led to believe. Look for the kindness. It's there more often than you think.