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EPISODE · Sep 23, 2025 · 1H 1M

We Have No Idea When Someone Is Flirting With Us

from we are NOT the SAME · host Heather Gardner and Lacey Joseph

Send us Fan MailEver found yourself completely clueless about whether someone is flirting with you? You're not alone! We're diving headfirst into the complicated world of flirtation, armed with hilarious dating app screenshots and our own awkward experiences.From finger-in-mouth disasters to decoding the subtle art of eye contact, we explore why 72% of people can't tell when someone's interested in them. We take a personality quiz that reveals our flirting styles (physical, playful, polite, sincere, or traditional) with some surprising results—turns out one of us scores much higher on the flirtation scale than expected!The conversation takes fascinating turns as we examine how differently men and women perceive flirting signals. Men often view mutual gaze as a sexual invitation while women see it as general interest. We discuss how men tend to "peacock" their accomplishments while women focus on appearance, and why being "too nice" when rejecting someone's advances can backfire spectacularly.Between fits of laughter, we unpack the balance between vulnerability and mystery, how comfort levels affect flirting ability, and why our facial expressions often betray our words. Whether you're a confident flirt or someone who thinks everyone's just being friendly, you'll find yourself nodding along and laughing at our dating misadventures.Hit that follow button, leave us a five-star review, and join our community of listeners navigating the hilariously complicated world of human connection. Your face might say "cringe," but we promise your heart will say "thank you!" -Support the show

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Send us Fan Mail Ever found yourself completely clueless about whether someone is flirting with you? You're not alone! We're diving headfirst into the complicated world of flirtation, armed with hilarious dating app screenshots and our own awkward experiences. From finger-in-mouth disasters to decoding the subtle art of eye contact, we explore why 72% of people can't tell when someone's interested in them. We take a personality quiz that reveals our flirting styles (physical, playful, polite...

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