We React to a Reddit AITA About Splitting Money With Your Partner (Ep 124)

Ever kept a secret tally of what your partner owes you? Or have your partner agree to something and then not hold up their end of the agreement? This week we're digging into a Reddit AITA post about a couple stuck in a slow-motion money standoff, and it's messier (and more relatable) than it sounds.The original poster has been quietly tracking IOUs for over a year: Venmo requests that go unanswered, dinners he always ends up covering, and a running total that's crept past a thousand dollars. He wants to know if keeping that list makes him the asshole.We dig into:- Why "not the asshole" doesn't mean the relationship is actually fine- The difference between tracking money and avoiding a real conversation- What a shared "fun account" could solve that a Venmo request never will- Why a cohabitation agreement is worth the awkward conversation, especially when only one of you owns the homeThis one's a good gut check for anyone who's ever let a money frustration fester instead of naming it out loud.Connect with us:Book a free call with Val (financial planner): https://calendly.com/valerie-stratfordBook a free call with Sherry (financial coach): https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=17480698&appointmentType=25737393Val's Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/you.me.and.moneySherry's Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/moneymindsetfcPodcast Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/mind.money.adhd.podcastSherry's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moneymindsetcoaching