为什么我独自生活时更开心

Nikou NayebzadehRobin Williams once said:"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone."I can totally relate to this quote myself because when I was a "follower", someone who followed groups in order to not feel alone, I felt the loneliest and most alone I had ever felt.So I stopped following groups I didn't enjoy spending time with. In fact, I started to enjoy spending time with myself. I stopped lying to myself that I was having fun when I weren't. I asked myself the following questions:Who do I want to hang out with?Who am I?Once you know who are you, you'll attract the right people. You'll attract people who want to spend time with you because they like YOU, not the character you've created.Thus, the second question was more important to me because I realized I am someone who enjoys talking about sports, who loves to joke around, to act crazy around folks I like, to support others.. and when I was hanging out with someone who made me feel depressed, and made me reflect excessively about what I said, I knew that something was WRONG.Now, I have an amazing bestfriend with whom I can act crazy with, can have eloquent discussions with, can joke around with, can support excessively, can be serious with, and can love with all my heart. I feel relatively and incomparably happier than I did when I was hanging out with that group in order to cure that "loneliness" which ironically, only worsened. Thus, I'm glad I left that group.So if you feel happy when you're alone or live alone, that means you enjoy your own company more than you enjoy the company of the people around you.Once someone whose company you start to enjoy more than the company of yourself appears, you certainly will pick the former.