What An Unconditional Love Relationship Is Like Between Two True Selves

***** This talk is a short excerpt from a private Zoom seminar in May 2020 as part of the Aura Mastermind. The accompanying text for this seminar is Richard Schwartz, "You Are The One You've Been Waiting For": https://ifs-institute.com/store/37 ***** Join David Tian on the "DTPHD Podcast" as we explore deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Join our private Facebook group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ ***** Get free access to Stefan and David's new mantra meditation course here: https://www.tenshinmindfulness.com/ ***** For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfillment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behavior, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of over a decade of coaching, therapy, and education of thousands of students around the world. Join him on the "DTPHD Podcast" as he explores deep questions of meaning, success, truth, love, and the good life. Subscribe now. Connect with David Tian here: Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davidtianphd DTPHD Podcast Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/ Podcast: https://www.davidtianphd.com/dtphdpodcast Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd ***** What An Unconditional Love Relationship Is Like Between Two True Selves Shownotes 1:02 David Tian Ph.D. explains how our various parts work in a relationship 9:28 What are exiled parts of ourselves? 15:52 This happens when you are the primary source of love for your parts 17:59 The three ways your most vulnerable parts were exiled 24:03 What qualities do we lose when parts of us are exiled? 26:00 This is how exiles feel in an intimate relationship 32:48 What extreme belief do our parts have about intimate relationships? 41:15 How attachment re-injuries impact our intimate relationships 46:55 How your partner can become your "tor-mentor" 50:49 The problem with our exiled parts 53:30 The solution to the problem with our exiled parts 56:08 Two major types of love 1:00:53 Common manifestations of protective parts in intimate relationships 1:03:22 Relationship troubleshooting issues to look out for