What Are the Values You Live By? Master These 7 Areas of Your Life And Achieve Excellence, with Dr. John Demartini

In this episode of the Jake Dunlap Show, we welcome back Dr. John Demartini, human behavior expert, author, and educator.For over 48 years Dr. Demartini has been dedicated to inspiring people to become purposeful disciplined masters of themselves and inspired leaders of others by expanding human awareness and maximizing potential. This episode focuses on Dr. Demartini’s new book, ”The 7 Secret Treasures: A Transformational Blueprint for a Well-Lived Life” which explores the 7 areas of life he identifies as the turning points to excelling in life and achieving your objectives. Time stamps: (00:53) Dr. John Demartini- human behavior expert, author, and educator;(01:34) Dr. Demartini’s new book, “The 7 Secret Treasures: A Transformational Blueprint for a Well-Lived Life”- the inspiration behind it, and important takeaways;(04:48) First chapter- How to master learning and maximize our creativity and skills;(05:11) The second chapter- Master the art of engaging in your work;(05:48) Why do people struggle with finding their purpose and following their values?(08:14) Next chapter- Mastering finance- raise the value of being of service to people by creating a sustainable fair exchange, create your own brand, and learn how to make money work for you passively;(09:36) Fourth chapter- Relationships- link values and communicate effectively so you can achieve a sustainable relationship;(11:58) Pride vs. Values- Identify who you are and live consciously according to your true self, without subordinating to other people’s values;(15:56) Leadership- let your values guide you towards achieving your objectives;(18:35) 7 questions or 7 turning points to help you find the right path.(27:40) Conclusions- what we need to address. Quotes “There are 7 areas of life that have been noticed that people are searching for (when they’re looking for a relationship) (...) So I have spent the last 50 years doing everything I can and researching how to master those areas, how to empower those areas, how to help people excel in those areas." “We say we want to make a difference, but we’re not going to make a difference fitting in, we’re going to make a difference standing out.” “I watch people get trapped economically because they have to have all that stuff, and then they’re working their life for money, instead of having money work for them.” “If people keep buying consumables that depreciate in value and live in the shadow of other people and live through other people's brands instead of building their own brand in life, they’re not going to have money work for them.” “Nobody’s dedicated to you, nobody’s loyal to you, nobody’s committed to you, that’s a fantasy people have. The reality is you’re interested in fulfilling your top values and so are they, and they’re getting in a utilitarian relationship with you because they believe that they're going to get more values met by being with you than with somebody else on the market.” “Any time you’re trying to fix your mate, you’re having a fantasy person you’re trying to get them to be. You’re having an affair with a fantasy and when they go have an affair with somebody else who loves them, don’t be surprised.” “We have a hierarchy of values and whatever is highest on our values, we’re spontaneously inspired from within to go and do (...) Whatever’s highest on your value is where you excel.” “The people who excel are people who are living congruently according to what they value most and they’re willing to endure the pain and pleasure in the pursuit of it regardless of obstacles, opinions, or challenges.” “Money without meaning leads to debauchery. Money with meaning leads to philanthropy.” “Don’t be a victim of history, be a master of destiny by asking questions and holding yourself accountable to answer them.” ______________________________ The previous episode with Dr. Demartini as a guest: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_7VlYl5WxE Dr. Demartini’s new book: The 7 Secret Treasures: A Transformational Blueprint for a Well-Lived Life Get in contact with Dr. John Demartini: Demartini Method- https://rb.gy/xx2guxLinkedin- https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjohndemartini/Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/drjohndemartini/?hl=enFacebook- https://www.facebook.com/drjohndemartini/Podcast- https://drdemartini.com/podcast/ The Demartini Institute: Website- https://drdemartini.com/about/demartini-institute/Linkedin- https://www.linkedin.com/company/demartini-institute/YouTube- https://www.youtube.com/user/DrDemartiniPinterest- https://www.pinterest.com/drdemartini/ ____________________________  Follow Jake: Website- https://www.jakedunlap.com/Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/jake_dunlap_/Linkedin- https://www.linkedin.com/in/jakedunlapTwitter- https://twitter.com/jaketdunlap