EPISODE · Jul 1, 2024 · 57 MIN
What Causes Cheating? How Can the Love Me & Still Cheat?
from FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal · host Lora Cheadle
Throughout today's episode, we’ll explore the root causes behind infidelity, not to excuse or justify the cheater’s actions but to better understand the true causes. It is through this understanding that we can start to heal, transform, and ultimately create lives filled with more self-love, authenticity, and genuine connection. Top Take-a-Ways: Understanding the Link Between Infidelity and Self-Worth: Infidelity often stems from low self-esteem, fear of abandonment, and personal pain. It's less about the betrayed partner and more about the cheater's internal struggles and emotional disconnection. The Power of Compassion and Empathy: While infidelity is painful and trust-shattering, approaching the situation with compassion and empathy for both oneself and one’s partner can pave the way for healing. This doesn't mean excusing the cheating partner’s behavior but rather understanding its root causes to address and resolve personal wounds. Owning Your Journey, Not Their Problems: Healing from betrayal involves significant personal growth and the realization you can't control your partner's actions or recovery. Healing means focusing on your self-worth, setting healthy boundaries, and embarking on your journey of self-love and empowerment. Join us as we navigate the complexities of infidelity, challenge the stigma around it, and work towards reclaiming our worth with strength and authenticity. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast to help us reach more women who need to hear this message. FREE Workshop! Freedom From Intrusive Thoughts After Infidelity or Betrayal July 3rd 8 AM PST / 9 AM MST/ 10 AM CST / 11 AM EST Sign up for FREE on Eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/934742619337?aff=oddtdtcreator About Lora Attorney, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle believes that betrayal uncovers the truth of what’s possible when we stop focusing on what was done to us and start showing up unapologetically for ourselves. She helps women rebuild their identity and self-worth after infidelity so they can reclaim (or find for the very first time) their confidence, clarity, and connection to source and create their own kind of happily ever after. Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session SOLAWAVE Reduce the appearance of wrinkles, fine lines, dark circles, blemishes, and dark spots while de-puffing and energizing your skin. This 7x Award-Winning Skincare Wand combines Red Light Therapy, Galvanic Current, Therapeutic Warmth, and Facial Massage for an easy-to-use and effective treatment. https://www.pjtra.com/t/2-574028-273174-269792 The most comfortable shoes you will ever wear! Available in seven heel heights, these shoes will keep you comfortably on your feet for 12 hours. Made with cork, many styles are available including heels, wedges, and boots. www.EuropeanHeels.com $25 off with Discount Code Flaunt #workshop #freeworkshop #InfidelityRecovery #RelationshipHealing #SelfLove #SelfWorth #EmotionalWellbeing #ConflictResolution #SelfEsteem #FearOfAbandonment #BetrayalRecovery #HealthyRelationships #CompassionateHealing #PersonalGrowth #ManageConflict #TherapyJourney #ReclaimYourself #EmotionalIntelligence #RelationshipAdvice #SurvivalInstincts #UnderstandingInfidelity #HealingJourney #BoundariesInRelationships #BetrayalSupport #PodcastCommunity #CheatingRecovery #HealthyConversations #cheating #infidelity #affairrecovery
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Throughout today's episode, we’ll explore the root causes behind infidelity, not to excuse or justify the cheater’s actions but to better understand the true causes. It is through this understanding that we can start to heal, transform, and ultimately create lives filled with more self-love, authenticity, and genuine connection. Top Take-a-Ways: Understanding the Link Between Infidelity and Self-Worth: Infidelity often stems from low self-esteem, fear of abandonment, and personal pain. It's less about the betrayed partner and more about the cheater's internal struggles and emotional disconnection. The Power of Compassion and Empathy: While infidelity is painful and trust-shattering, approaching the situation with compassion and empathy for both oneself and one’s partner can pave the way for healing. This doesn't mean excusing the cheating partner’s behavior but rather understanding its root causes to address and resolve personal wounds. Owning Your Journey, Not Their Problems: Healing from betrayal involves significant personal growth and the realization you can't control your partner's actions or recovery. Healing means focusing on your self-worth, setting healthy boundaries, and embarking on your journey of self-love and empowerment. Join us as we navigate the complexities of infidelity, challenge the stigma around it, and work towards reclaiming our worth with strength and authenticity. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast to help us reach more women who need to hear this message. FREE Workshop! Freedom From Intrusive Thoughts After Infidelity or Betrayal July 3rd 8 AM PST / 9 AM MST/ 10 AM CST / 11 AM EST Sign up for FREE on Eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/934742619337?aff=oddtdtcreator About Lora Attorney, speaker and Burnout & Betrayal Recovery Coach, Lora Cheadle believes that betrayal uncovers the truth of what’s possible when we stop focusing on what was done to us and start showing up unapologetically for ourselves. She helps women rebuild their identity and self-worth after infidelity so they can reclaim (or find for the very first time) their confidence, clarity, and connection to source and create their own kind of happily ever after. Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session SOLAWAVE Reduce the appearance of wrinkles, fine lines, dark circles, blemishes, and dark spots while de-puffing and energizing your skin. This 7x Award-Winning Skincare Wand combines Red Light Therapy, Galvanic Current, Therapeutic Warmth, and Facial Massage for an easy-to-use and effective treatment. https://www.pjtra.com/t/2-574028-273174-269792 The most comfortable shoes you will ever wear! Available in seven heel heights, these shoes will keep you comfortably on your feet for 12 hours. Made with cork, many styles are available including heels, wedges, and boots. www.EuropeanHeels.com $25 off with Discount Code Flaunt #workshop #freeworkshop #InfidelityRecovery #RelationshipHealing #SelfLove #SelfWorth #EmotionalWellbeing #ConflictResolution #SelfEsteem #FearOfAbandonment #BetrayalRecovery #HealthyRelationships #CompassionateHealing #PersonalGrowth #ManageConflict #TherapyJourney #ReclaimYourself #EmotionalIntelligence #RelationshipAdvice #SurvivalInstincts #UnderstandingInfidelity #HealingJourney #BoundariesInRelationships #BetrayalSupport #PodcastCommunity #CheatingRecovery #HealthyConversations #cheating #infidelity #affairrecovery
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