What Changed After Becoming Parents? “Are We Doing It Right?” | Hoy! Aba Teka Ep 2

In this episode of Hoy! Aba Teka, Cyra and Chef Martin share candidly about the big and small changes that come with becoming parents, especially as overseas Filipino workers raising kids away from extended family.They talk about the shift from chef-life hours to parenting “shifts,” the struggles of caring for a newborn during the pandemic without extra help, and how they learned to balance work, sleepless nights, and new routines together.Amid the laughter, personal anecdotes, and honest reflections, Cyra and Martin remind listeners that while no one is ever fully prepared for parenthood, love, teamwork, and trust in each other make the journey possible.The conversation also dives into:The importance of teamwork in parenting (a.k.a. the “new job: shifting schedule”)Coping with fears like SIDS and adjusting sleep patternsWhy both moms and dads need emotional support postpartumDiscovering matrescence (the transition to motherhood)The value of gut instinct versus Google when it comes to raising childrenHow family priorities reshaped their careers and time. Follow us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecapanzanas/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hoyabatekaFacebook: facebook.com/thecapanzanasYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYPIggj8L_Vlx0e3HHBN98A