What do we miss when we focus on fixing our children? - Mariela De Santiago

We sit down with Mariela De Santiago, an experienced therapist and advocate for children with special needs, to uncover specific, practical ways to help your child feel happier, more understood, and confident in being their true selves. Mariela explains how small, intentional actions can transform your child’s day by addressing their unique sensory and emotional needs. You’ll learn about sensory tools to ease anxiety, the surprising role of storytelling in emotional regulation, and simple strategies to create a safe environment for growth. Whether you’re a parent navigating daily challenges, a special education teacher, or a health professional looking for actionable insights, this episode will give you the tools to support the children in your care with confidence and compassion. Episode highlights: • [02:15] Mariela emphasizes the need for creating a “safe zone” for children with special needs: “It’s not just about providing comfort—it’s about helping them feel safe enough to express who they truly are.” • [08:30] Discover how sensory experiences, like a specific texture or sound, can help calm a child: “Every child has a sensory ‘sweet spot,’ and finding it can change everything in moments of stress.” • [12:45] Learn why celebrating small, incremental progress is crucial: “You don’t need big breakthroughs every day. Recognizing the small steps builds the child’s confidence and your patience.” • [17:20] How storytelling and favorite books can help children connect with and understand their emotions: “Storytelling isn’t just a bedtime activity—it’s an emotional lifeline that can help your child make sense of what they’re feeling.” • [22:50] Advice for parents on balancing advocacy with self-care: “You’re the expert on your child, but your own emotional well-being is the foundation of your ability to support them.”