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EPISODE · Mar 30, 2026 · 23 MIN

What Do You Actually Want?

from Uncensored Self with Ryann Gillen · host Ryann Gillen

I got a DM on TikTok from a woman who had been looking at the Identity Reset. She said she had no idea what she actually wanted. Was that still okay?My answer was yes. That is literally the point.Most high achieving women I work with, women running multiple six and seven figure businesses, realtors, brokers, corporate leaders who have built something real, cannot answer that question. Not without pulling in the goals and the metrics and the roles and the things the outside world told them they should want.This episode is about the actual thing. Not the goal list. Not the metrics. What you actually want.What you will learn in this episode:Why most of us have been choosing our lives off someone else's menu and do not even know itThe difference between the mind game and the energy game when it comes to desireWhy saying I do not know what I want is almost never actually trueHow the how problem keeps you from admitting what you actually wantWhy getting clear on identity has to come before getting clear on desireWhat happens energetically when you finally stop pretending you do not knowTo book your Identity Reset Private Intensive: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YvAjaZrany9EVnfok15btP2kuGAMpDcPC-P7czrxuTg/edit?usp=sharingConnect with me here:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ryanngillenofficialInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryanngillenFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ryanngillenYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RyannGillenofficial

I got a DM on TikTok from a woman who had been looking at the Identity Reset. She said she had no idea what she actually wanted. Was that still okay?My answer was yes. That is literally the point.Most high achieving women I work with, women running multiple six and seven figure businesses, realtors, brokers, corporate leaders who have built something real, cannot answer that question. Not without pulling in the goals and the metrics and the roles and the things the outside world told them they should want.This episode is about the actual thing. Not the goal list. Not the metrics. What you actually want.What you will learn in this episode:Why most of us have been choosing our lives off someone else's menu and do not even know itThe difference between the mind game and the energy game when it comes to desireWhy saying I do not know what I want is almost never actually trueHow the how problem keeps you from admitting what you actually wantWhy getting clear on identity has to come before getting clear on desireWhat happens energetically when you finally stop pretending you do not knowTo book your Identity Reset Private Intensive: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YvAjaZrany9EVnfok15btP2kuGAMpDcPC-P7czrxuTg/edit?usp=sharingConnect with me here:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ryanngillenofficialInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryanngillenFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ryanngillenYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RyannGillenofficial

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