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EPISODE · Feb 12, 2026 · 50 MIN

What Does It Mean To Become Yourself ?

from The Things You Can't Touch

Welcome back to another episode of The Things You Can’t Touch. Remember, this is a philosophy podcast. Today, we are joined by a guest who many of you may recognise from her online presence. She is known for embodying a particular character on social media... one that sparks conversation, controversy, and strong reactions. But this episode is not about prying into her personal life or turning her into a spectacle. This is a philosophical conversation about identity. Through questions about memory, structural injustice, religion, morality, personality, and social media, we explore how identity is formed, and reformed. We touch on thinkers like Bhikhu Parekh, standpoint epistemology, and broader questions about whether intelligence, disability, family, or trauma can ever define a single story about a person. As always on TTYCT, this is not about cancelling, diagnosing, or reducing someone to a label. It is about understanding complexity. It is about allowing people to articulate their own philosophical framework for who they are and how they move through the world. Thank you for being here - make sure to engage with us: 00:00 - Intro 01:28 - What Does It Mean To Become Yourself ? 03:12 - Are You A Different Person ... ? 04:15 - The Person You Are As Memories Overtime 05:30 - Misunderstood 07:19 - Structural Injustice (Sally HASLANGER Mot Haslington) 10:30 - Let Go Of The Past 13:30 - Parekh And Identity, Struggle And Adapt 16:38 - Disabilities And One Identity 18:15 - Has Social Media Done Harm Or Good ? 20:02 - Personality Disorders 23:50 - Religion 27:00 - What Is Real And What Is Fake 28:00 - Intelligence (And Standpoint Epistemology) 34:05 - Do Your Fans See You How You Want Them To ? 37:08 - Is Everything ... Real ? 39:35 - Family 41:40 - Morality 46:35 - Putting Down The Alcohol 48:12 - Message For TikTok 49:25 - Outro Thank you sticking to the end ! The most important part is to make sure to follow our guest on all her socials !! TikTok: @raejah_xx TikTok: @raejah4lives Instagram: @raejah4live

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