What I’d Tell My Younger Self: Goals Are Cute, But So Is Rest – Lessons on Growth, Burnout, Shoulds and Balance

We love a good goal, checking things off the to-do list, chasing milestones and making moves. Pero mija… what’s the point of doing all the things if you’re too exhausted to enjoy them?Rest isn’t just cute - it’s necessary.In this personal episode of So, It Depends, written on my 35th birthday, I’m sharing the lessons I wish I could’ve told my younger self about burnout, business, perfectionism and the weight of shoulds. From constantly overthinking to finally embracing imperfect action, this one’s for anyone who feels stuck between ambition and exhaustion.Whether you’re a business owner, creative or recovering perfectionist, this episode will help you rethink what growth looks like.In this episode, I cover:Why waiting for the perfect time keeps you stuckHow to recognize the signs of burnout before it takes overThe sneaky ways perfectionism shows up (especially when it feels like “just being careful”)Why starting over isn’t failure - it’s growth with experienceHow to build systems that support you, so you can rest without guiltIf you’ve ever felt like you should be further along, struggled with burnout or found yourself caught between chasing goals and needing a break, this one’s for you.Grab your cafecito, get comfy and let’s chat about what it really means to build a sustainable business and a life you can enjoy.🎙️ Subscribe to So, It Depends and learn how to grow without burning out.All content is for informational purposes only.⁠ Read the full disclaimer here.