What If Fixing Your Marriage Isn't Even The Goal? l EP. 103 l

Send us Fan MailMost people treat "nice guy" like a life sentence. Even the guy who coined the term still calls himself a recovering nice guy. I reject that completely.Being a nice guy isn't one trait you manage forever. It's a handful of protective parts that formed for a reason, usually somewhere back in childhood, and once you see it that way you can actually work with each one instead of trying to overcorrect into the opposite extreme and becoming an arsehole about it.In this episode I get into why the order of respect in your life matters more than almost anything else, why the way you judge other people is usually a mirror of what you haven't dealt with in yourself, and the feather, brick, bus framework that explains why most men only change after everything falls apart, instead of catching the signs months earlier.I also talk about what it actually means to give to your wife and kids without an invoice attached, why "just listen to your feelings" is terrible advice for someone who's currently unhappy with their life, and the hard question I ask clients who are on the fence about whether to fight for their marriage or walk away: what would you tell your own son to do in this exact situation.This one goes deeper than marriage. It's about becoming a man who doesn't need anyone's permission to respect himself.Join The Grounded Man Movement communityhttps://www.skool.com/omni-presence-7305/aboutWant short impactful emails to help you shift & evolve delivered right to your inbox? Join the 90 sec email club HEREIf you’re a business owner or high-performing man whose life is stable on paper — but your marriage feels flat, your presence at home feels off, or you’re tired of trying harder without real depth or connection click below to apply for coaching.Apply HERE Want to know exactly how you're showing up in the marriage, contributing to the state it's in and importantly what you can do about it? (without her having to even know)Take the Husband Performance Score in less than 4 minutes, get your personal profile & roadmap to start changing tonighthttps://harrisonorr.com.au/husband-performance-quiz-574846