EPISODE · Jul 8, 2025 · 11 MIN
What If I Don’t Remember?
from Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher · host Maurice Harker
“What if I don’t remember what I felt back then?”“What if she asks a question I’m not ready to answer?”“What if I say something wrong and it comes back years later?”This episode tackles one of the most terrifying moments in a man's healing journey: being caught off guard by a question he should have an answer to—but doesn’t. When your wife brings up something from years ago, and you can’t recall your thoughts, feelings, or even the situation… what do you do?Inside this episode:The “Rough Draft Protocol” that protects both of you from jumping to conclusions too fastWhy writing things down—even when you don’t understand them—can be a spiritual disciplineHow to include God in your reflection so you don’t avoid the hard stuffThe danger of saying anything while emotionally or chemically compromisedWhy women often cling to old words—and how to avoid making haunting statementsWhat consistency in your spiritual habits tells her (even more than your words)This episode is not about being perfect. It’s about being intentional—even when your memory fails you, your confidence falters, or your timing is off. It’s about growing into a man who wants to get it right, and is learning how.Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/the-chemical-scale/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIGKTWRqqvQ&t=5sCheck out Life Changing Services: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/
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“What if I don’t remember what I felt back then?”“What if she asks a question I’m not ready to answer?”“What if I say something wrong and it comes back years later?”This episode tackles one of the most terrifying moments in a man's healing journey: being caught off guard by a question he should have an answer to—but doesn’t. When your wife brings up something from years ago, and you can’t recall your thoughts, feelings, or even the situation… what do you do?Inside this episode:The “Rough Draft Protocol” that protects both of you from jumping to conclusions too fastWhy writing things down—even when you don’t understand them—can be a spiritual disciplineHow to include God in your reflection so you don’t avoid the hard stuffThe danger of saying anything while emotionally or chemically compromisedWhy women often cling to old words—and how to avoid making haunting statementsWhat consistency in your spiritual habits tells her (even more than your words)This episode is not about being perfect. It’s about being intentional—even when your memory fails you, your confidence falters, or your timing is off. It’s about growing into a man who wants to get it right, and is learning how.Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/the-chemical-scale/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIGKTWRqqvQ&t=5sCheck out Life Changing Services: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/
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