EPISODE · Jul 28, 2025 · 13 MIN
What If YOU'RE the Problem? How Real Men Handle Being Called Out
from Real Men - Real Talk · host Real Men Apparel
⬇️Best Underwear Ever:https://shorturl.at/2E1zBChris and Tilghman get brutally honest about what happens when YOU'RE the problem in your relationships. From marriage conflicts to the urge to disappear when confronted, they share real stories and practical steps for owning your mistakes.Key moments:1:03 - Chris's recent mess-up with his wife and the urge to "check out"3:36 - The grace factor: having people who know how to confront with love5:36 - Tilghman's marriage wake-up call after getting married young7:34 - Why "treading lightly" after messing up makes things worse8:01 - The work escape: using career focus to avoid relationship problems9:55 - "I'm the reason behind all these feelings" - the ownership moment11:14 - Why your loved ones don't want you to disappear when you mess up12:44 - What they actually want: your strength applied toward healingThe uncomfortable truth: being the problem isn't abnormal, but how you handle it determines everything.Real lessons learned:Don't defend, dismiss, or disassociate when called out- Take time to process criticism without immediately reacting- Journal and pray about what you're hearing- Come back engaged with your full strength applied to healing- Sometimes being called out reveals deeper patterns that need work"What people in your life really want from you is not for you to leave... they want you to take all that strength, all that aggression, all that drive that you have as a man, and use it for good."Join our community:Website: https://rmac.storeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_companyFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany#Marriage #Relationships #Accountability #PersonalGrowth #MensDevelopment #Conflict #Communication #Humility
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⬇️Best Underwear Ever:https://shorturl.at/2E1zBChris and Tilghman get brutally honest about what happens when YOU'RE the problem in your relationships. From marriage conflicts to the urge to disappear when confronted, they share real stories and practical steps for owning your mistakes.Key moments:1:03 - Chris's recent mess-up with his wife and the urge to "check out"3:36 - The grace factor: having people who know how to confront with love5:36 - Tilghman's marriage wake-up call after getting married young7:34 - Why "treading lightly" after messing up makes things worse8:01 - The work escape: using career focus to avoid relationship problems9:55 - "I'm the reason behind all these feelings" - the ownership moment11:14 - Why your loved ones don't want you to disappear when you mess up12:44 - What they actually want: your strength applied toward healingThe uncomfortable truth: being the problem isn't abnormal, but how you handle it determines everything.Real lessons learned:Don't defend, dismiss, or disassociate when called out- Take time to process criticism without immediately reacting- Journal and pray about what you're hearing- Come back engaged with your full strength applied to healing- Sometimes being called out reveals deeper patterns that need work"What people in your life really want from you is not for you to leave... they want you to take all that strength, all that aggression, all that drive that you have as a man, and use it for good."Join our community:Website: https://rmac.storeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/real_men_apparel_companyFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/RealMenApparelCompany#Marriage #Relationships #Accountability #PersonalGrowth #MensDevelopment #Conflict #Communication #Humility
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