What is a Good Life? #19 - Is It All A Dream? with Dan Lawrence

On the 19th episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast I am joined by Dan Lawrence, who is Head of Consultancy at Dallington Associates, a Jungian Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist, and a Social Dreaming Consultant.In this episode Dan takes us on a journey from questioning where thoughts come from as a child, to his investigations and work around dreams and social dreaming. While he also shares what he has learnt from his Zen practice, silent meditation retreats, mat surfing, and his recent intensive care unit experience in Malaysia. Dan’s life path to date includes being a Derivatives Trader for a decade, studying Theology, briefly considering priesthood, becoming a Jungian psychotherapist, offering Psychedelic integration therapy, all while practicing Zen for 25 years. His unique life experiences and perspectives make him one of the most insightful people I know. Through listening to this episode I am sure you’ll widen the scope of your investigation, and awareness, in contemplating what contributes to your own good life.Subscribe for weekly episodes, every Tuesday, and check out my YouTube channel (link below) for daily clips and reflections.Contact me at [email protected] to book a free 30 minute consultation for one-on-one coaching programs or to hear about corporate workshops I am offering around this question.Running Order: 01:40 Podcast begins02:00 where do thoughts come from?04:15 The nature of dreams09:10 Social Dreaming12:50 Waking and sleeping dreams16:37 Infant Observation21:40 A Social Unconscious25:20 Another language31:15 Facilitating mobility and spaciousness35:26 Importance of dreaming in understanding40:47 The trouble with dismissing dreams43:55 The compensatory nature of dream46:48 Not knowing is most intimate50:07 An intensive care unit experience56:32 Connection with aliveness1:01:25 Can you handle joy and awe1:06:15 What is a good life for Dan?For further content and information check out the following: - For the podcast's YouTube page: https://www.youtube.com/@whatisagoodlife/videos- My newsletter: https://www.whatisagood.life/- My LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-mccartney-14b0161b4/- Dan's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dan-lawrence-1537271b/- Dan's company website: https://www.theunthoughtknown.com/Keywords: Meaning of Life Interviews | meaning of life conversations | exploring life | big life questions | meaning of life discussions | creating a meaningful life​