What Is a Mentor?

In this episode of the I AM SELF-ISH podcast, host Will Wright sits down with Santiago Grijalva for a powerful conversation about the true essence of mentorship. Together, they unpack what makes someone a real mentor, how social media has reshaped mentorship dynamics, and why distinguishing between a mentor and an influencer is more important than ever. Santiago offers thoughtful insights and personal stories about the benefits and challenges of mentorship, the emotional impact of having (or lacking) guidance, and the critical role of integrity and accountability in these relationships. This conversation is a timely reminder that mentorship is more than a title—it’s a relationship built on trust, honesty, and growth. Throughout the episode, you’ll hear why a mentor is someone who genuinely wants to see the best in you, and how mentorship is rooted in guidance, accountability, and personal development. The discussion explores how social media has complicated—but not replaced—authentic mentorship, and why true mentors never make you feel like just a number. Santiago emphasizes that you are not defined by your past mistakes and reminds us that mentors are not therapists—they’re there to guide your direction. If you can’t clearly define your mentor, you probably don’t have one. A mentor should never make you feel stuck or ashamed, and the most meaningful mentorships are grounded in integrity, consistency, and accountability. Ultimately, the journey of personal growth often leads to becoming a mentor yourself. Connect with Host Will Wright📧 Email: ⁠[email protected]⁠📸 Instagram: ⁠@selfish.will⁠🌐 Website: ⁠www.iamself-ish.com⁠ Connect with Guest Santiago Grijalva📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @coach_gri