EPISODE · Sep 25, 2026 · 13 MIN
What is a Pastor BFF?
from Pastor BFF Podcast · host Amber Ervin
What exactly is a Pastor BFF? In this episode, Amber shares the story behind Pastor BFF and the kind of friendship that inspired it: a friendship rooted in Jesus, full of grace and truth, and willing to lovingly point one another back to Christ. A Pastor BFF isn’t someone who has all the answers or replaces your pastor, church community, or relationship with Jesus. It’s the kind of friend who will sit with you in the hard stuff, cry with you, speak truth when you need to hear it, and remind you who Jesus is when you’ve forgotten. We talk about spiritual highs and valleys, the danger of isolation, the beauty of Christian community, and what it looks like to help one another keep our eyes on Jesus. Because sometimes your flame feels weak. Sometimes you’re hurting. Sometimes you’ve wandered without even realizing it.And sometimes you just need a sister in Christ to say, “Girl, I love you. Let’s take this to Jesus.” This is the heart behind Pastor BFF. In This Episode: * The story of how Pastor BFF began * What inspired Amber to create this podcast * The difference between being in love with ministry and being in love with Jesus * What a true Christian friendship can look like * Walking through spiritual highs and valleys * Why God meets us in our mourning and brokenness * Why isolation can pull us further from the Lord * How Christian friends can help reignite one another’s faith * An invitation to join Amber Chapters:01:16 What is a Pastor BFF? 02:07 When We Drift From Jesus 03:41 Blessed Are Those Who Mourn 05:24 Don’t Hide When You’re Hurting 06:39 Why We Need Christian Community 08:06 Walking in the Light Together 09:37 Reigniting Your Flame 11:11 Come Along on the Adventure 11:58 How You Can Support the Podcast 12:23 Your Sending Challenge 12:45 What’s Coming Next Scriptures mentioned: * Matthew 5:3–9 * 1 John 1:5–10 * Romans 3:23 * Hebrews 12:1–2 * John 1:5 Pastor BFF Challenge: Who is in your circle that helps you get closer to Jesus? And then ask yourself: * Do I have a friend who can speak the truth to me in love? * Am I allowing myself to be known, even when I’m struggling? * Am I that kind of friend for someone else? * Is there an area of my life where I’ve been isolating instead of bringing it into the light? * Where do I need to stop striving and simply come back to Jesus? This week, reach out to one person. Tell them what’s really going on in your heart, pray together, open the Word together, or simply remind each other who Jesus is. And if you don’t have that person yet, ask Jesus to bring godly friendships into your life and begin by becoming the kind of friend you’re praying for. For now, I'll be right here with you! Keywords: Pastor BFF, Christian friendship, Christian women, Christian community, godly friendship, friendship with Jesus, spiritual growth, Christian sisterhood, discipleship, hearing God, following Jesus, walking with God, Christian encouragement, accountability, truth in love, spiritual maturity, Bible study, Christian podcast, faith journey, women of God, Christian encouragement podcast, Holy Spirit, Jesus, Christian living, overcoming isolation, spiritual growth for women
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