What Is Ambiguous Loss? Understanding Estrangement and Grief for Parents with Pauline Boss

In this episode of Family Troubles, I sit down with renowned family therapist and sociologist Pauline Boss to explore her groundbreaking concept of ambiguous loss and its powerful relevance to family estrangement. We discuss why some of the most painful losses are the hardest to define and how learning to live with that uncertainty can open the door to healing.We also challenge the cultural myth of closure, offering a more compassionate and empowering way to understand grief, disconnection, and the complexity of family relationships.Listen for more on:What ambiguous loss is and why it’s central to understanding estrangementThe difference between guilt and shame and why that distinction mattersWhy the idea of “closure” can be misleading (and even harmful)How focusing on your own growth can create the conditions for possible reconnectionThe risks of a culture that encourages cutting off relationships in pursuit of happinessWhy meaning, not resolution, is the key to moving forwardIf this episode speaks to you, give it a listen and don’t forget to subscribe, share it with someone who might need it, and leave a review to help more families find support.Guest Links: Website: https://www.ambiguousloss.com/Book: The Myth Of ClosureDr. Joshua Coleman’s Links:Website: http://www.drjoshuacoleman.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.josh.colemanSubstack: https://substack.com/@joshuacolemanphdFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrJoshColeman/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjoshuacoleman/?trk=opento_sprofile_topcardTwitter X: https://x.com/drjcolemanYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc-olRqS_o2xJlkpxWEEErg