What is Gaslighting?

Hey Friends! Its Maribel. You're not going to want to miss this Episode :) Grab your Bible and Coffee and let's talk about a common buzz word that has become popular. Have you heard of the term Gaslighting?  Gaslighting is one of the most misunderstood and most damaging forms of manipulation. It is not simply lying or disagreeing. It is a consistent, intentional pattern designed to distort your reality, undermine your intuition, and shift blame onto you until you no longer trust your own mind. In this episode, we break down what gaslighting truly is, using clear, real-life examples from Dr. Ramani’s work to help listeners recognize this tactic for what it is. We explore why manipulators rely so heavily on gaslighting, how it gradually erodes a person’s sense of self, and why research shows it can actually rewire the brain leading to memory loss, chronic self-doubt, and emotional confusion. We also turn to Proverbs 6:16–19, examining how Scripture describes behaviors God hates not as isolated mistakes, but as perpetual patterns of character rooted in deception and manipulation. Through biblical truth and personal testimony, I share how gaslighting causes you to second guess your instincts, question your sanity, and eventually believe the false narrative imposed on you. This episode exposes gaslighting for what it is: a destructive tactic of manipulation and spiritual deception. One that leaves lasting effects if it goes unnamed. If you’ve ever felt like you were “going crazy,” constantly apologizing, or doubting your own reality, this episode will help you name what was happening and begin reclaiming the truth.