What kind of Stan to Stan this is the Daily Disturbance Podcast with Anthony Fungi. What kind of stanning, right? Fanboying or fangirling, in other words, to look up to? I will confess I have a few fans who have stuck with me through the years.
Nothing compared to those who have followed some of my kids since they were in high school, but enough for me to see what good stanning seems to be. So what kind of stand or standing to look up to and to practice in my life? In other words, what kind of standing should we pursue? And perhaps a few tips too from Goldie Maldovsky.
Maybe it was obsession, but it was also happiness, an escape from the suckiness of everyday life. And when you find something that makes you happy and giddy and excited every day, us fangirls know a truth that everyone else seems to have forgotten. You hold on to that joy tenaciously for as long as you can. What kind of stan or standing to stand to look up to?
Number one Healthy expectations. Perhaps your stand acknowledges you by giving you a special access pass, but come on, don't stress if by any chance it doesn't happen, healthy expectations. Everyone will fail you, including your Stan. How many have you and I failed over time?
Number two Only the truth. If I will stand something, let it be the truth. Perhaps truth that is well told, perhaps it could have been better expressed. But regardless, only the truth must we stand.
Number three Willingness to wait. Standing that is willing to wait. Persistent, demanding. That is the kind of standing that people should be avoiding.
Number four towards the best version of self. We have heard this so many times. Self improvement. Stretching one's potential, reshaping one's value or virtue system.
Number five Overly grateful. To be content to have an acknowledged to have been seen if only in the scene zone. To have been part of a great audience. To have been inspired to have enjoyed the content provided.
Again, an attitude of gratitude. H o W T O H is healthy expectations. O is only the truth. W is willingness to wait.
T is towards the best version and O overly grateful. H o W T O How to Stan that's the kind of Stan to Stan A quote from a fan in the Philippines, 16 year old Mary we feel that we fit into this fandom even if we are an outcast or a misfit in this world.