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EPISODE · Jan 16, 2026 · 7 MIN

What Kokomo Knows: Witnessing Without Words

from NeuroDivergent Relationships Podcast with Kathy Marshack, Ph.D. · host Kathy Marshack, Ph.D.

We often spend our lives over-explaining, over-accommodating, and performing just to feel like we belong. But what if your presence alone was an invitation?   In this episode, Dr. Marshack looks to her dog, Kokomo, as a master teacher of "Witnessing Without Words." Kokomo doesn’t bark for attention or negotiate his worth; he simply positions himself where connection can occur and trusts that he will be seen.    Dr. Marshack explores why this embodied way of being resonates so deeply with the NeuroDiverse mind, which often finds the "theatrical" social world of humans exhausting, and why NeuroTypical partners so often lose their "spine" by trying to be louder or smaller to stay connected.    Discover how to move from a lens of control to a lens of trust, and why the most powerful form of witnessing requires no words at all.   ————————————————————    If you are looking for more resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, start with Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.   The Discussion Continues: Join the confidential Podcast After Party for this episode! Check the schedule at Thinkific and the Meetup group.   Future of Healing: Dr. Kathy is developing two innovative video games: Radiant Empathy: A Journey of Heartbreak and Healing and The University of NeuroDiversity: Radiant Empathy Campus.  ➡️ Find more resources at https://asd-ntrelationships.com/

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