what makes dating difficult?

hi guys! welcome back. in this week's podcast, i discuss the book DateOnomics, what makes dating difficult besides just what city you live in, why "if he wanted to he would" can be toxic advice, may astrology, + more.  enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!   LISTEN ON SPOTIFY/APPLE MUSIC/ETC: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae  FOLLOW ME ON TIKTOK: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself  join my discord server! https://discord.gg/9D8M7QXynM  MERCH: http://bit.ly/stellaraemerch  follow me on IG http://instagram.com/stella.rae  follow me on twitter http://twitter.com/stellarae  support the podcast! http://anchor.fm/stella-rae/support  support the podcast! use this amazon link when making purchases http://amzn.to/2u0WGeR  my fav books/products/health: www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae   listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9  listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182  DateOnomics book: https://amzn.to/38O2myX  Sex & Rage book: https://amzn.to/3kyL7o4  NY Time article summarizing DateOnomics: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/09/13/books/review/date-onomics-the-sex-myth-and-modern-romance.html Washington Post article about DateOnomics: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/soloish/wp/2015/09/08/dont-let-date-onomics-get-you-down/  if he wanted to he would tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshitaddicts/video/7090797855719378218?_t=8Rp2aP0P2fW&_r=1  consent tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@backformo/video/7087423854670368042?_t=8RzPt7nePlq&_r=1  May Astrology newsletter: https://www.astro.com/news/nl_news2205_e.htm  #StellaRaePodcast  timestamps:  00:00 - 03:50 Intro 03:50 - 12:45 DateOnomics 12:45 - 23:03 "If He Wanted To, He Would" 23:03 - 31:25 Don't Take It Personally 31:25 - 33:55 Sex + Rage 33:55  - 44:10 Consent, Enthusiasm, Control 44:10 - 49:14 May Astrology Report