What Matters with Kate Bowler: Aching, Hoping & Finding Joy Anyway

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“Happiness is great, but joy is for the rest of us.” - Kate Bowler What does it mean to be joyful… anyway? Five-time New York Times bestselling author, Duke University professor, and host of the podcast Everything Happens, Kate Bowler, sits down with Liz for a conversation about joy that doesn’t ignore how hard life can be—it starts there.  At 35, with a young child and her dream job, Kate was diagnosed with Stage IV colon cancer. Now, ten years later and in durable remission, she’s still living inside the question: How do you hold joy and grief at the same time? In her new book Joyful Anyway, Kate articulates what most of us feel but rarely admit– the ache: a subtle, persistent sense that something is missing. With the diligent curiosity of a researcher and the wry humor of a comedian, Kate dismantles the clichés of toxic positivity and examines how authentic joy finds us.  This is a conversation about what happens when you stop trying to skip to the good part and let life be messy, tell the truth instead of performing resilience, and stay open to the unexpected, technicolor moments of life. In this episode, you’ll learn:The difference between joy and happinessWhy Joyful Anyway is a response to a life that doesn’t follow the scriptHow Kate’s cancer diagnosis reshaped her faith—and her relationship to certaintyWhy toxic positivity can distance us from real joyWhat “the ache” is—and it might be the most honest part of being humanThe common obstacles that keep us from experiencing joyWhy ruthless honesty is the first step to making space for joyHow joy actually shows up (hint: it’s rarely convenient or controlled)Why there’s no 5-step plan to joyHow a poisonous snake bite became an unexpected moment of healing for KateWhy joy and grief aren’t opposites—they’re companionsHow purpose, love, and hope can lead us back to joy Because maybe joy isn’t something you chase.   Maybe it chases you. “I thought I had to have a lucky life to have it be deeply beautiful” says Kate. “I don't believe that anymore. I think that joy is made for everyone–no matter what–and I think it will chase us down.” See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.