What Men Really Want, with David Matthews

Our special guest on Secrets They’ll Only Tell a Matchmaker is David Matthews, author of “Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think.”David is a men’s dating coach and he’s here for a candid conversation about how men actually think, communicate, and approach dating. He and matchmaker Gina Hendrix cover why the idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth, why directness gets better results than hints or games, and a surprisingly practical trick for getting past the polite "yes" answer everyone gives to "are you looking for a relationship?"The Q&A covers a wide range of topics. There's a discussion on what to do with unexpected likes and messages from couples on the apps, and how to handle it when someone you've politely declined pushes back and demands feedback.One caller opens up about juggling health challenges and dating burnout, another wrestles with a small but persistent "ick" from an otherwise great match, and we try to answer the big question: is true love real?All of this is couched in some self-reflection and a realization that the more responsibility and hustle a woman carries, the more their softness and femininity can quietly get buried under it. The takeaway from this episode of Secrets They’ll Only Tell a Matchmaker, with Gina Hendrix: the world only sees us the way we present ourselves to it, so it's worth asking whether you're showing up to dates as the guarded, hardened version of yourself or the lighter, more open one. CHAPTERS:(00:00) Introduction(04:01) Rejecting Without Debate(08:42) Introducing David Matthews(10:31) How Men Think Today(14:28) Texting Intentions And Truth(17:29) Getting Honest Relationship Answers(19:59) Awkward Intimacy Questions(23:22) Apps, Love And Better Date Questions